Ah! L'amour!

Love! Love! Love! It’s everywhere!! Especially now, that valentine’s day is coming! Let’s think for a minute…

What is love? According to the Oxford dictionary, “Love” is  depicted as ‘a strong feeling of affection’, but for you, what is the real love? Some people go through life and never fall in love; not even once. For some, at least those fortunate enough, fall for someone and they become the “one” for the rest of their lives.

There are many love stories around the world that could be called “epic” because of their power, but in my opinion, it isn't the time that you spent in relationship that will say whether your love story was epic or not, but rather the intensity that you lived it. It’s the power of “faith” that you put on it and how much you want it.

How many times can we fall in love for someone? How many soul-mates do we have during our entire life time? Is there only one? The concept of ‘soul made’ is a challenge for me. I once read, “Soul mate: two little words, one big concept. A belief that someone, somewhere, is holding the key to your heart.” Do you believe that? What make someone your soul-mate? The similarity or the differences? I remembered that specific episode from Sex and the City, where Carrie says: “Maybe our girlfriends are our soul-mates, and guys are just people to have fun with.” Maybe it’s true!

Why are there so many people, and I mean NICE PEOPLE, single nowadays? I think the reason why is because we’re too choosy with us and people around us. We want someone hot, nice, intelligent,with a good chat, rich,…Wait! Did you notice it? WE ONLY WANT WHAT IS CONSIDERED PERFECT! C’mon, guys! Girls dream with the “prince charming”  idea their whole lives, and because of that they don’t even notice when the other guys, that wouldn't be considered perfect or “the prince”, could be perfect for them. And they're staring you right in the face! Girl, maybe you just saw the love of your life and you just let slip! Wake up!

 Being single doesn't mean that nobody wanted you. It means that you have to open your eyes! So, Stop looking for someone who is perfect for the rest of the world. Start looking for someone who is perfect for YOU! But I have to warn you: don’t take anybody just because you don’t wanna be alone. NO! You deserve only the best. Only that one who will make your heart start beating faster!

On Valentine’s Day or in every regular day, we’re looking for only thing: “Love! Real love, ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, can’t-live-without-each-other-love!” Maybe love from your mom, or your friend, a guy, a girl, or from a dog, it doesn't matter. Live to love.

 And don’t forget, please: The first love of your life must be you!!

xoxo